Saint John’s Church Staff

The Rev. Amelie A. Wilmer, Rector

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The Rev. Amelie A. Wilmer began her ministry at St. John’s in June of 2017.  Prior to her arrival, she served for five years as the vicar of All Souls Episcopal Church, Mechanicsville. She received her Post-graduate Degree in Anglican Studies from Virginia Theological Seminary and her Master of Divinity from Union Presbyterian Seminary, and was ordained to the priesthood in 2011.   

Amelie also holds degrees in Economics/Political Science and Art History from Yale University.  In addition to her previous career in banking, she is a past president of the Junior League of Richmond, former chair of the Carver Promise and board member of the Urban League of Greater Richmond, and graduate of Leadership Metro Richmond. She served on the Executive Board of the Diocese of Virginia from 2013-2015, the Editorial Review Board of the Interpretation Journal of Bible and Theology from 2014-2021, and currently serves on the board of ReWork Richmond.

Amelie is devoted to her three sons: Channing, Turner, and Carter, who live in San Francisco.

Amelie is an avid long-distance runner and dedicated to her yoga practice.  She and her family enjoy travel, hiking, art, good books, and annual pilgrimages to Burning Man in the Nevada desert. She resides in Richmond.

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The Rev. Anthony Gaboton, Jr., Associate Rector

Anthony helps to plan and lead worship services and plays a key role in nurturing our Young People’s Ministry, providing support to families, children, and youth. He also contributes to adult faith formation and pastoral care ministries, as well as to the leadership of our Outreach and Justice ministries.

In addition to serving half-time at St. John’s, Anthony is part-time Vicar at Calvary Episcopal Church in Hanover County and assisting the Diocese of Virginia with the Phoebe School for Deacons.

Anthony entered into the priesthood in January 2024. Although newly ordained, he has several years of ministerial experience, including a residency at Richmond Hill (a spiritual retreat center and monastery), hospital chaplaincy, and youth ministry.

In 2023, Anthony completed a year of Anglican Studies at Virginia Theological Seminary. He is also an alumnus of Oral Roberts University and holds an M.Div. from Union Theological Seminary in New York and a Th.M. from Candler School of Theology at Emory University.

As the son of a military veteran, Anthony has lived in many places but spent most of his life in Virginia. In his spare time, he enjoys bike rides, chess, sports, yoga, sunsets, and has recently started DJing as a hobby.

The Rev. Dr. Mary Thorpe, Long-term Supply Priest

The Rev. Dr. Mary Brennan Thorpe comes to St. John’s as Long-Term Supply Clergy in September 2025, bringing gifts of healing, administration, teaching, pastoral care and preaching as well as a northern accent that sometimes surprises her congregation! 

Her journey to ordained ministry came after careers in public policy, in entrepreneurial ventures in high-technology, and in public education as a music teacher. Thorpe served as Interim Canon to the Ordinary in the Diocese of Southern Virginia, following a stint as Interim Rector at Christ and Grace Episcopal Church (Petersburg) and Epiphany Episcopal Church (Oak Hill). Prior to that, she served as Canon to the Ordinary in the Diocese of Virginia, addressing areas ranging from transition and clergy formation to conflict and disciplinary matters, as well as coaching of parishes and clerics. Her prior role in the diocesan offices was Director of Transition Ministry for the Diocese of Virginia, assisting parishes and clergy in search. Until her call to diocesan work, she was Rector of The Church of the Epiphany (Episcopal) in Henrico Virginia; she also served as Chair of the Diocese of Virginia’s Committee on the Diaconate and as Dean of Region XI. Mary holds degrees in music from New Jersey City University and the University of Hartford, and has carried on post-graduate studies in business at Stanford University through the American Electronics Association. She holds a Master of Divinity with honors from Virginia Theological Seminary. She received  the Doctor of Ministry degree in Church and Ministry at Columbia Theological Seminary. She is the author of "On the Emmaus Road: A Guide to Transitions in Ordained Leadership" (Church Publishing, 2020). An iconographer for almost thirty years, her icons hang in churches across the United States and in Europe and the British Isles. She is married to The Rev. Douglas M. Thorpe, Ph.D., who is Executive Director of the Virginia Institute for Pastoral Care, and is a mother of five and grandmother of six.  

Patty Duffy, Parish Administrator

Parish Administrator Patty Duffy joined the staff of St. John’s Episcopal Church after a 16-year teaching career. She has a B.A. in English from the University of Virginia and a B.S. in English Education from Virginia Commonwealth University. She is an active member of St. James’s Episcopal Church, where she sings in the Parish Choir, serves as a certified Stephen Ministry Leader, and facilitates Sacred Ground dialogues. She is an avid beagle owner and currently owns Phripp.

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Curtis Sydnor, Minister of Music

Curt Sydnor is a keyboardist and church musician with a background in classical music and jazz. He has a predilection for arranging and composition (including choral work), and a love for the pipe organ. 

Curt is a graduate of Vanderbilt University and has received advanced degrees in piano from the Russian Academy of Music and Indiana University.

Curt moved to Richmond in 2019 and has performed locally with different groups while serving as Minister of Music at Emmanuel Episcopal Church at Brook Hill (2019-2022). Curt teaches at Greenspring Academy of Music in the West End and the Fan. He was named 2022 Featured Composer by Classical Revolution, a non-profit which programs classical music around Richmond in non-traditional spaces.

He lives in Richmond with his wife and two children.